Enhancing understanding and intimacy


For more than two decades I have been helping people become all they can as individuals and members of intimate relationships. As a psychologist, sex and marital therapist, professor and author, I have tried to spread the message that successful and satisfying lives are the result of self-creation rather than the result of chance. When you have been taught the required skills, there is every reason to believe that you too can produce both an extraordinary life and satisfying relationship!


  • Certified Clinical and Counselling Psychologist (e.g., “C. Psych”) with the College of  Psychologists of Ontario
  • Adjunct Professor, Western University, London, Ontario
  • Author, The 10 Conversations You Must Have Before You Get Married (and How to Have Them)
  • Doctorate in Psychology: The University of New Brunswick. Grade point average: 4.0.  Dissertation title: Quantifying and defining rapid/premature ejaculation: The time has come.
  • Master of Arts in Psychology: The University of New Brunswick. Grade point average: 4.0.  Thesis title: Patterns of coercive sexual behaviour in men.
  • Bachelor of Arts (Honours Psychology): The University of Western Ontario.  Graduated Dean’s Honour List

Scope of Practice

Mental Health Issues

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Panic Attacks
  • Abuse recovery
  • Obsessive thinking
  • Stress management
  • ADD/ADHD management
  • Anger management
  • Low job satisfaction
  • Academic success strategies
  • Grief and loss
  • Personality issues

Marital Issues

  • Poor communication
  • Infidelity
  • Conflict resolution
  • Parenting problems
  • Style difference
  • Financial style conflict
  • Mutual goal enhancement
  • Separation and divorce
  • Long-distance relationships
  • Retirement adjustment
  • Career conflicts
  • Extended family issues
  • Couple compatibility

Sexual Issues

  • Sexual compulsion/addiction
  • Desire discrepancies
  • Low sexual desire
  • Erectile problems
  • Premature ejaculation
  • Painful intercourse
  • Adjustment to STIs
  • Internet issues
  • Orientation issues
  • Sex and aging
  • Sex following disability illness, or surgery


  • Grew up and attended public and high school in Caledon/Orangeville, Ontario
  • Attended Western (BA), University of New Brunswick (MA and Ph.D.), and interned at London Health Sciences Centre
  • Married +20 years, lives in London, Ontario with his wife and two teenage sons
  • Pastimes/passions include fishing, Inuit sculpture, scuba, single malt, science fiction, and “shiny things”